Conflict with parents over marriage

What to do when your parents disapprove of your Marriage ?

When your parents disapprove of who you choose to marry, your marriage and that of your parents will be impacted. Additionally the relationship that you have with your parents can be severely damaged.

Should you go ahead with your Marriage ?

Wait,the most important step you should take now is to share the reason you love your partner. Ask your partner to meet your parents more often . During the meeting discuss childhood memories, dreams, goals, future plans and so on.

Parents will take negatively about the person you love, your parents comments may not be liked by you. But give them a patient hearing because their advice is coming from a place of love & protection for you.

The next and the most important thing you must do is to meet a sex cum relationship counselor, this kind of a counseling helps parents to see your point of view, and this will reduce their fear that you have marrying a wrong person.

If your parents are not convinced then please postpone your wedding until such time that you are confident about making the right choice. Every marriage is in some way shaped by the family, so starting a new life with their blessing will pay off better dividends later.

Realize that it is less traumatic to call off the wedding than it is to get a divorce.

The points that you should keep in mind is that with time people grow and most often people grow apart.

You have to have a clear vision how you and your partner can remain entwined and grow together.

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